In this project, I am looking for a better understanding of marriage. I am 24 and my friends and family often show their concern for my well being by asking about my personal life, “do you have a boyfriend?”, “It is time to get married.”, and this confuses me. Is marriage a necessary step which everyone has to experience in their life? Does it have to be at a specific age? What will make me step into a marriage?
My fears around marriage are influenced by stories I read and hear about the difficulties of life after marriage. Do I want to become a housewife and devote all my time to a husband and children? Marriage is like Pandora’s Box, it is an attractive, tempting notion but what will happen after you open it? I am the person who is holding this box right now, and trying to figure out what is inside.